first-person eulogy / Living legacy

Capture your life story authentically—narrated in your voice, with your style. Leave behind a written legacy to inspire, comfort, and be remembered by.

What story do you want to tell about your life? Would you share the challenges you’ve overcome, your core values, and your proudest achievements? How about your most cherished relationships, lessons learned, sources of inspiration, and the moments that sparked joy? Through this process, your story is professionally crafted with you as the narrator.

Writing a eulogy for a loved one can feel overwhelming in the midst of grief. A prepared eulogy is a compassionate gift—it can serve as a eulogy or memorial, provide the foundation for an obituary, and bring solace to those you leave behind by preserving your voice and the message you most wish to share.  

This writing can be more than a reflection after death; it can be a meaningful expression while living. Many choose to share theirs during milestone birthdays, retirement celebrations, or intimate gatherings like Celebrations of Life (sometimes called “Living Funerals”).

Preparing a first-person eulogy or living legacy can be a powerful, cathartic process. It gives you the opportunity to reflect on your journey, express what matters most, and shape the way your story will be remembered.

what’s the process?

Prior to our first meeting, a series of questions will be emailed to review. Then we’ll schedule a time to chat in person (San Antonio area) or on Zoom/FaceTime. Plan to spend a couple of hours in conversation with me.

We’ll discuss the trajectory of your life, complete with important names and dates. From there, I’ll ask follow-up questions and leave space for you to share what matters most to you. My main job is to actively listen, follow your lead, and capture your voice. Each tribute is as unique as the person reflected in it.

Next, I’ll write the first draft and email it within 10-12 business days. You will have the chance to review for potential revisions up to two times before a final copy is sent to you. Non-disclosure agreements upon request. Addendums available. Ask me how we can customize this project even more!

A written tribute averages between 2000–4000 words in length, which is roughly 10–15 minutes read aloud.

end of life writingS

As an end-of-life doula, I help gather your loved one’s final thoughts and farewells in writing. *

Treasure written accounts of final musings and memories, words of wisdom, and stories beyond the scope of a personal tribute. Final letters and notes can also be dictated for gifting, sometimes attached to mementos or heirlooms. I may gently guide conversation, but this is a time for compassionate listening. These collections should be done while someone has the capacity to speak and share with minimal effort. 

End of life written legacy projects are priced at an hourly rate. Please contact me for details or to discuss ideas for customized legacy projects.

* Alternatively, these stories and letters may be gathered at any point in someone’s adult life — not just end of life — to pass down as a written legacy now or in the future.

Pet tribute

Animals are members of the family, too. A tribute can help keep the details of your pet’s personality and life in full focus, forever. The process is similar to writing a living tribute, but from the pet family’s point of view.